
HOT MESS is back for another series of empowering, laugh-out-loud and insightful evenings with Petra Bagust & Niki Bezzant!
Show Dates & Locations
14 AUG 7.30pm - AUCKLAND SHORE (sold out)
19 AUG 7.30pm- STRATFORDÂ (sold out)
20 AUG 7.30pm- HAMILTON (sold out)
21 AUG 7.30pm - AUCKLAND CENTRAL (sold out)
28 AUG 6pm- CHRISTCHURCHÂ (sold out)
30 AUG 7.30pm - WELLINGTON (79% sold)
31 AUG 7.30pm - DUNEDIN (75% sold)
12 SEP 7.30pm - WHANGAREI (87% sold)
Note: No door sales.
Your Midlife Glow-Up Starts Here
We know midlife isn’t always smooth sailing. 🔥 HOT MESS is here to help you navigate the wild ride of menopause, hormones and life changes—with a room full of women who get it.
We are super excited to invite you to 🔥HOT MESS: Navigating Midlife and Menopause - it's an empowering, laugh-out-loud and deeply insightful evening with us, Niki Bezzant and Petra Bagust.
This fun night is about hosting the important convo for women navigating midlife and menopause (and those who love us!), blending humour, heart and practical wisdom.
Grab your meno-posse and your tickets to join us in August & September for an unforgettable night of connection, inspiration and info.
Grab your tickets now
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Hot Mess Christchurch
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Hot Mess Wellington
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Hot Mess Dunedin
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Hot Mess Whangarei
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Our wonderful partners
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Everee Women
Visit Everee WomenEverēe Women™ is leading the charge in women's health, tackling the science of ageing and hormonal change with cutting-edge dietary supplements. Their mission? To help women feel strong, vibrant, and unstoppable—whether they’re navigating perimenopause, menopause or just the everyday chaos of life.
Like Hot Mess, Everēe Women™ believes in power through change. They’re here to shift the narrative, making sure women aren’t just surviving these transitions but thriving—with energy, confidence and skin that still gets ID’d at the bar (ok, maybe not, but we can dream).
As Kimberley Bray, co-CEO of Everee Women, puts it:
"At Everee Women, we believe every stage of a woman’s life deserves the right support, education and honesty. That’s why we’re proud to sponsor the Hot Mess Tour because knowledge is just as essential as nutrition when it comes to navigating this transformative time."This partnership is all about supporting women through every messy, magnificent stage of life. So, while we bring the laughs, Everēe Women™ brings more science-backed solutions. Another match made in midlife magic!
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Pharmaco
Visit PharmacoIt’s important for the women of Aotearoa to have access to the best possible menopause care. Part of that picture is hormone therapy; a treatment that for too long was misunderstood and misrepresented. Now, we’re coming out of the fog of confusion around hormones and hormone therapy, and more of us are getting the message that this can be an important part of the picture when it comes to caring for ourselves through this transition. We’re thrilled and grateful to have Pharmaco supporting us on the Hot Mess Tour.
Thanks to them, evidence-based, best-practice hormone therapy is available with a prescription from your GP.
They say, “At Pharmaco, we’re here to improve lives, and for us that means supporting women through menopause. We're proud to back the Hot Mess Tour, a bold initiative shining a light on menopause and helping to bring menopausal hormone therapy into the national conversation. By partnering with this important event, we’re helping to normalise the conversation, empower informed health decisions, and ensure that women feel supported and seen.  It’s been an inspiring first tour, and we’re excited to see this movement continue to grow." -
Elta Ego
Drink Elta EgoWe’re stoked to welcome Elta Ego as a Hot Mess partner - because for many of us in midlife, drinking just doesn’t love us back anymore. These alcohol-free, adaptogen-rich cocktails are a brilliant match for women choosing clarity over chaos and joy over the morning-after.
Elta Ego is proud to partner with Hot Mess. Our mission is to help people look good, feel good, and connect with their best self — no alcohol required. For many, navigating menopause sparks a fresh look at habits like drinking and opens the door to healthier ways of caring for both body and mind. Through this partnership, we’re amplifying honest conversations about these changes and celebrating women as they embrace every stage of life.”
Menopause often prompts a fresh look at old habits, and together we’re here for the honest conversations, the healthier choices, and celebrating women as they embrace every stage of life.
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Flo & Frankie
Visit Flo & Frankie"At Flo & Frankie, we believe in celebrating and empowering women at every stage of life. As a female-founded brand, we’re passionate about crafting timeless fashion that makes women feel confident, beautiful, and strong - because true style is about more than what you wear; it’s about how you feel.
That’s why we’re so excited to support the HOT MESS tour! Midlife and menopause deserve a spotlight, and this empowering event is exactly the kind of conversation we love - one that blends heart, humour and real talk."
Flo & Frankie champion thoughtful fashion and effortless elegance - blending bestselling pieces, modern staples and fresh finds you won’t want to leave behind.
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Clinicians
Shop CliniciansWe are over the moon (and occasionally fanning ourselves) to have Clinicians on board as a sponsor of Hot Mess! They’re the pros when it comes to supporting us through every twist, turn and “is it hot in here or just me?” moment.
In their words, "Our Clinicians Women’s Health range is specifically designed to support women’s wellbeing and the different phases of a woman’s life. We are the No.1 Women’s Health Brand in NZ pharmacies* with our range of supplements designed to support vaginal and bladder health, hormone health, iron absorption and more."
They’ve got the goods to help us ride the waves of midlife - from hormones doing the cha-cha to not-so-fun times 'down there' to iron levels that ghost us at the worst times. We love that they’re here to keep our women thriving, laughing and smashing through menopause.
*IQVIA, 52 weeks to WE 2025-6-14
Hot Mess x Jesse Mulligan
Have a listen to Jesse Mulligan interviewing Petra & Niki about the Hot Mess Tour.
Pre-order your Hot Mess Activewear
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Smokin' Hot Mess Singlet
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High Functioning Hot Mess Tee
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Hot Mess Cap
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